We spend a lot of time thinking about our personal safety.
It’s not safe to play with matches.
It’s not safe to drive over the speed limit.
It’s not safe to get on an airplane without screening passengers through a metal detector.
It’s not safe to ride a bus alone at night.
It’s not safe to park drive in that part of town.
It’s not safe to hitchhike or pick up hitchhikers.
I wonder if we are confusing safety with wisdom. It’s sometimes less dangerous for me to fly into the middle of a war-torn country than it is for me to drive my car on the interstate. However, wisdom would mean not walking through a war-torn country without a guide or driving without a license.
We take risks with our lives every day. Sometimes simply climbing out of bed is a risk. If you’re living and breathing, you’re taking a risk in your personal safety.
Doing your best to keep yourself personally safe is fine, as long as it doesn’t interfere with your ability to love well. If you are more worried about taking a risk than loving a person well, then you’ve missed the point. As a follower of Jesus the Christ, I’d say you’ve missed the point of the gospel. If you don’t follow Jesus, then I’d say you’ve missed the point of a full life.
We can use wisdom and instinct when it comes to personal safety, those are good things. However, I challenge myself and I challenge you to think a little deeper the next time you say the words “that’s not safe”.
Is it really unsafe, or are you letting fear control your chance to love well?